Blessed are the ordinary, for they are accepted and complete in Jesus.
Does that raise your hackles? Sounds like heresy doesn’t it? “Good enough isn’t good enough! Don’t settle for anything less than excellence!” After all, this blog is supposed to be about practice right? About getting better?
The work of the enneagram is embracing the shadow, the part of ourselves we wish to deny; the part we hide from the light, from the gaze of the other, from the eye of God. The grace of God has redeemed the shadow, as well as the False Self, the mask we forge to face the world. By grace we are saved through faith into a single whole, our genuine self, an ordinary person.
Accepting who I am, the “bad” with the “good,” has been the most blessed and powerful experience God has ever given to me – the blessing of being ordinary.
The greatest gift God has given me is the gift of self-acceptance. If everything I do has to be extraordinary, then nothing I do is good enough. If nothing I do is good enough, then I must be a bad person; a fig tree that bears no fruit, fit only to be cast into the fire.
It’s hard to practice when I’m plagued by those kinds of thoughts.
We don’t despise a bouquet of roses because they look like every other. We accept them gratefully as beautiful.
The odd thing is that being ordinary allows me to write, allows me to meditate, and allows me to practice. If I am accepted and complete in Jesus, then I can gratefully bear the fruit God has given me knowing it is enough.
Shaming children who fall short of the 10,000 hour rule may be the road to greatness, but it is not the road to blessedness. Enjoy the work of your hands, and with it bless the world, even when it’s only ordinary.